My friend, G., on the 3rd anniversary date of her father’s passing, had phoned to alert me that her precocious patient was at that very moment making a beeline toward our front door. Said patient, our elderly neighbor, was hoping to somehow ditch the watchful eyes of her caregiver, who she thought she had just unwittingly snuck out on. Me, prepared for the unexpected, opened the front door to greet my hopeful neighbor exclaiming “You’re just in time for coffee and lemon cake with Henri. And look, your favorite TV show is on too!” Glancing backwards she quickly stepped inside leaving her caregiver patiently waiting outside.
Silently mouthing the words “meet me out in the greenhouse” to G., I nodded to Henri to take charge. Leaving the room, I had a plan whose time had come. A new batch of my home made raspberry liqueur was ready, and that morning I had remembered to decant it.
Giggling at the shear craziness of the events that precipitated this impromptu escape to the greenhouse, G. and I lifted our glasses to acknowledge this date on the calendar. The anniversary date of her father’s passing.
As she spoke of her last hours with him, a quiet, almost physical sensation of melting into calm could be felt. It’s really all she needed. Just a brief moment to remember the day he left.
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Safely back inside, we heard the familiar sounds and laughter from the rerun television show involving one Archie Bunker. All was well again and our brief absence was hardly even noticed.
Later, reflecting on the evening's events, I smiled at the special bond I now felt with my newly acquired greenhouse and the unexpected role it had played in its ability to provide comfort.
Next time, I promise you a day visit.
19 comments:
Oh my, what an evening! Good thing you had a beautiful moonlit greenhouse and some raspberry liquor on hand! Your photos are lovely, especially the shot of the moon!
Kat :)
How lovely that you could share that special time to support your friend. Looks like that greenhouse will become the stage for many adventures.
What a lovely story. You were able to provide respite for your friend and indeed for her charge who enjoyed a little free time with Henri. Hooray for your little greenhouse. Gorgeous photo of the full moon too.
Diane
Simply lovely - times like this are so special, and leave me almost speechless with delight.
Your blog is fast becoming a favorite of mine. The pictures of the moon, the greenhouse, the raspberry wine with leftover raspberry bits still in the strainer... and the story is quite funny - several subplots within the main plot... again everything blends so beautifully. I can relate to this third year anniversary of G's dad. My own dear husband left this earth nearly three years ago. There is still a place in my heart where the wound of his leaving has not healed.
Reading this post somehow brought a measure of comfort to me.
Thank you!
( So sorry, I was on my sister's laptop, and she was signed on, so her name appeared on my first comment, which I have deleted.)
Lidj
August 16, 2011 9:34 AM
Oh, it's up! What a special moment. But hey, wait a minute . . a BEAR?!!
How kind you are! Your greenhouse - your home in general, seems like a very gentle place.
Hello Lili,
Sounds too funny and sweet to, I could sure use some of that raspberry liqueur right now and all in the dark included. Henri makes a good babysitter:O) Stay safe, Sandy:O)
This feels like the beginning of a wonderful short story...thank you for sharing!
Lili, that is such a sweet story! And your pics are, as always, just beautiful!
sounds like a wonderful way to enjoy the evening. cordial and a spiritual connection in a beautiful setting. xo~
Hi dear Lili,
I love the PEACE your presence and your magical greenhouse (not to mention the liqueur) gave that poor soul.
Your shots of the moon are fantastic. This pitiful little point and shoot I have is ok, but not good. I'd love to invest in another. Your photos are breathtaking.
We're hoping that you and Henri journey southward in a month or so. We're not going any further south. Ogunquit was a mad house.
Love to you and Henri,
S
Beautiful sharing on a moon-lit night. What a good friend you are! Your greenhouse is marvelous.
Hi Lili, Just catching up on your posts, I've been away helping mom and dad in Florida and am behind on everything.
First, happy anniversary! You guys are such an attractive couple!
Second, I want your green house! I have a friend that had a 'tea house' built out in her perennial gardens and she has a tea set in there. It was lovely with tea and biscuits (english cookies).
You are so lucky to live in such a glorious place.
Hey, I'm lucky too, to be in Maine. (ask me that again in February,tho) In under an hour I can drive to the ocean or the mountains.
Enjoy your greenhouse.
Love it!!!
I adore your greenhouse. Beautiful. Its nice to have friends that you can spend time with. So glad you shared this.
I can't think of a better, or more meaningful way to christen your new greenhouse! You will enjoy this sunny space more than you ever imagined.
That is a wonderful story- definitely a special time spent with your friend. The greenhouse was the perfect little meeting place- you've helped to make a difficult day- a very special day- for your friend--
Vicki
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